Jald shadi ke liye wazifa
Asal baat to yahi hai ke har hukum Allah taala ki taraf se tay hai, aur har cheez ka waqt muqarrar hai, lehaza –apne maslay mein kisi bhi qisam ke was wasay aur shak mein hargiz mubtala nah hoyie, aur sadaq dil se Allah Subhana taala se naik rishta mangte rahiye. neez har namaz ke baad saat martaba darj zail dua ka ihtimaam karen, neez chaltay phirtay bhi parhte raha karen :
رَبِّ إنِّيْ لِمَا أنْزًلْتَ إلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيْرٍ
Aur subah wa sham surah waqea aur surah tarek pabandi se parheen .
Manpsand ki shadi ka wazifa
Pasand ki shadi ke liye quran aur sunnat ki roshni mein koi dua ya wazifa btadin
Umooman pasand ki shadi mein waqti jazbaat muharrak bantay hain, waqt ke sath sath un jazbaat aur pasandeedgi mein kami anay lagti hai, nateeja aisi shadian nakaam hojati hain aur alehdgi ki nobat ajati hai, jab ke is ke muqablay mein khandano aur rishtoon ki jaanch parkh ka tajurbah rakhnay walay walidain aur khandaan ke buzurgon ke karaye hue rishte ziyada payedar sabit hotay hain. Aur bilamool shareef ghranon ka yahi tareeqa kaar hai, aisay rishton mein waqti na pasandeedgi umooman gehri pasand mein badal jaya karti hai ؛ is liye musalman bachon aur bachiyoon ko chahiye ke woh –apne zimma koi boojh uthany ke bajaye –apne barron praatmad karen, un ki razamandi ke baghair koi qadam nah uthayen .
Albata Aqil baaligh mard aur aurat ko Shariat ne yeh haq dyahe ke apni pasand aur marzi se nikah kere ؛ is liye walidain ko chahiye ke woh aulaad ki chahat maloom karkay is ka lehaaz rakhen. behar haal walidain ko munasib tareeqay se apni chahat bitanay ke sath Allah Tabarak wa taala se dua istikhara jari rakhen, aur “یَا وَدُودُ ” kasrat se parheen aur farz namazon ke baad darj zail dua manga karen
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ اَزْوَاجِنَا وَ ذُرِّیّٰـتِنَا قُرَّةَ اَعْیُنٍ وَّاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِیْنَ اِمَامًا