English ya arabic ( Aik sabaq amooz waqea )
Apne bachon ko deeni taleem ki bejaye dunyawi english medium taleem ko tarjeeh dainay walay aik baap ki pachtawe se b_hr poor kahani
Huzoor akram sale Allah alaihi wasallam ka irshad hai ke qayamat ke din aik Hafiz quran –apne khandan mein se das aisay afraad ki sifarish kere ga jin par jahannum wajib hochuki hogi ( yani un ka jahannum mein jane ka faisla hochuka hoga ) aur Allah taala is ki sifarish qubool karen ge aur un das afraad ko is Hafiz quran ke sath jannat mein dakhla naseeb farmaen ge. tirmizi, Ahmed
Yeh Ahadees Mubarikah suntay hi mere mun se be ikhtiyar nikla meri aankhon se ansoon ki aik mouti ladi niklee aur zameen par gir kar jazb hogayi. aah. mein kitna badnaseeb baap hon mere bachay aah. mere nalaiq bachay. aaj mere kisi kaam ke nahi mein ne inhen paala posa jawan kya. un ki shadian kee aaj jab mere boorhay jism mein taaqat khatam hogayi hai kuch karne ke qabil nahi raha to mere bachon ne mujhe ghar se nikal jane ki dhamki day di. ae kkhuda kash mujhe aisay aulaad naseeb nah karta aulaad to maa baap ki aankhon ki thandak hoti hai un ke jigar ka tukda hoti hai lekin meri aulaad. kash meri aulaad bhi naik hoti. ae kash. aik thandhi saans bhar ke mein ne apna sir oopar kya charon taraf nazrain dorhayin to masjid khaali hochuki thi. shayad namazi namaz parh kar gharon ko chalay gaye thay imam sahib bhi apni hadeesoon wali kitaab almaari mein rakh kar jarahay thay. mein bhi deewar ke saharay se utha aur masjid se bahar nikal aaya .
Ghar Pahonch Kar Main Seedha –apne kamray mein chala gaya, meri aankhon se ansoo jari thay jo ke khatam honay ka naam hi nah le rahay thay. aik gham tha jo ke andar hi andar mujhe khaye ja raha tha aik chout thi jo ke mujh se bardasht hi nahi horahee thi. kash ke mein ne –apne bachon ko deeni taleem se bhi roshnaas karaya hota kash inhen deen islam ki kuch baatein hi sikha dy hoten, inhen zindagi guzaarne ke kuch tareeqay hi sikha diye hotay to shayad mere sath yeh haal nah hota .
Haan ghalti meri hi thi mein ne inhen shuru se hi shehar ke ounchay aur english medium school mein daakhil kara diya tha un ka sara nisaab to english mein tha hi mahol bhi english wala tha goya jaisay urdu likhna parhna jantay hi nah hon, bara beta tha jo thori bohat urdu samajh laita tha chhootey ko to bilkul hi nahi aati thi. ghar mein woh mere sath bhi english bolnay ki koshish karte lekin mein un ko jawab urdu mein hi deta tha kitna fakhr tha mujhe.
Apne beton par jab woh english boltay to mera dil khushi se labraiz hojata aur mein jhoom jhoom kar un ki aur ziyada hosla afzai karta mujhe achi terhan yaad hai ke aik dafaa mere chhootey betay ne mujhe se english mein mera haal ahwaal poocha to mein ne khushi se usay gilaay lgalya aur aik chhota sa inaam bhi diya, inaam le kar woh khush hogaya lekin aaj jab yeh waqea yaad aaya to mein buri terhan ronay lag gaya haae mere bachay. mere bachon ne mujhe chore diya saaf zahir hai jab mein ne inhen engrazeo wali taleem dilwai to unhon ne mere sath sulooq bhi engrazeo wala hi karna tha. mujhe yeh bhi achi terhan yaad hai bachpan mein mere bachon ko school se do bujey chhutti sun-hwa karti thi aur teen bachay inhen ne academy parhnay jana hota tha aur phir academy se raat gaye wapas atay thay meri biwi kuch deen daar, saleeqa shoaar aur samajh rakhnay wali khatoon thi. aik dafaa mujhe kehnay lagi .
Saim ke papa, bachon ko quran Majeed bhi parhna chahiye mein chahti hon ke hamaray bachay quran Majeed bhi parheen. mein apni biwi ki baat sun kar soch mein par gaya. un ko to time hi nahi milta, quran kareem ki taleem woh kaisay haasil karen ge. mein ne apni biwi ko yeh baat batayi to woh boli. bachon ke paas do se teen bujey tak ka waqfa hota hai is douran qaari sahib se baat kar ayen to woh aadha ghanta day diya karen .
mujhe yeh tajweez bhali lagi mere ghar ke sath hi aik acha sa madrassa tha mein usay madrasay mein gaya qaari sahib se mulaqaat ki aur –apne bachon ke baray mein un ko bataya aur sath quran Majeed parhanay ki offer bhi ki, unhon ne waqt poocha to mein ne un ko waqt bhi batadiya bas waqt ka sunna tha ke qaari sahib ne mujh se moazrat karli ke hum bachon ko kam az kam aik ghanta parhatay hain, is se kam waqt mein nahi parha sakte, mein qaari sahib se adhay ghantay par hi israar karta raha lekin jab woh nah manay to aakhir tang aakar anhn ne mujhe kuch aisi baatein kahin jo ke aaj mujhe shiddat se yaad aa rahi theen kitni sachaai thi un ke kehte hue aik lafz mein. kitni mithaas thi un ki baton mein un ki zabaan se nikla sun-hwa aik aik lafz saabit ho raha tha kash mein ne un ki baton par thora sa amal kya hota, un ki baton ko thanday dimagh se socha to hota jee chaah raha tha ke daud kar jao aur un ke pao choom lon lekin ab to waqt guzar gaya tha, qaari sahib waqt ke sath sath khud bhi guzar gaye thay mein gham se nidhaal hogaya –apne aap ko halka karliya tha, haan waqea qaari sahib ne theek kaha tha ke dunyawi taleem ko to den aap baara ghantay aur deeni taleem ko sirf aadha ghanta ,
kamyaab insaan to wohi hai jis ke paas dono talemaat hon jitna woh dunyawi taleem haasil karne mein laga rehta hai itna woh deeni taleem ko bhi haasil kere aap ne –apne bachon ko english schoolon mein to daakhil karaya sun-hwa hai be shak aap –apne bachon ko achi taleem se roshnaas krarhe hain lekin yeh taleem to is waqt tak hamara sath day gi jab tak hum zindah rahen ge, marnay ke baad to qabar mein sirf deeni taleem hi kaam aaye gi kal jab hum marjayen ge to hamaray bachay hamein quran kareem parh kar aisaal sawab to kar saken ge hamein kafan pehna kar dafan to kar saken ge, kitney badnaseeb hon ge woh walidain jinhein marnay ke baad bachon se koi faida nahi puhanche ga, bachon ko un ki namaz e janaza parhnay ka tareeqa hi nahi aata hoga, inhen yeh bhi maloom nah hoga ke hum ne –apne walidain ko qabar mein kaisay utaarna hai inhen kaisay Nehla kar kafan pehnana hai .
Haye استغفر اللہ, mein zaar o qitaar ronay laga mein abhi zindah hon, zindah honay ki haalat mein bhi mere bachon se mujhe koi faida nahi hai, baad marnay ke kya hoga. qaari sahib ki baatein mere dil par teer ban kar chubh rahi theen aaj mujhe maloom ho raha tha ke qaari sahib ne woh baatein mere faiday ke liye hi kahi theen, is waqt to mein ne qaari sahib ki un baton par tawajah hi nahi di thi aik khayaali zehen jaisi baatein samajh kar wapas agaya tha. aglay roz mein phir qaari sahib ke paas nah gaya mein –apne bachon ko school baqaidagi aur pabandi ke sath bheja karta tha kyun ke mujhe maloom tha balkay mera khayaal tha ke mere bachay achi taleem haasil kar ke kal ko achay shehri achay insaan ban jayen ge mera iradah tha ke mein –apne barray betay ko dr banao ga jo ke burhapay ki haalat mein meri khidmat kere ga chhootey betay ko bhi kisi barray ohday par Faiz kara do ga lekin aaj jab meri khidmat ka waqt aaya to bachon ne mujh se mun mourr liya aur aisay nata tora ke phir biwion ke ho kar reh gaye, barri baho to mujhe ghar mein aik boojh samjhti thi choti baho jab se beya kar aayi to is ne aaj tak mujh se baat tak nahi ki thi usay to mein shuru se hi bura lagnay laga tha meri shareek hayaat bhi is sadme se is duniya se chal basi thi chhootey betay ko to –apne business se fursat hi nahi millti thi is ne to aaj tak meri khidmat bhi sahih terhan nah ki har waqt paisa kamanay ke chakkar mein para rehta, bara beta bhi apni masrufiyat ke baais mujh se nah mil sakta tha ae khuday-e pak mein kya karoon. meri aankhon se ansoo jari hogaye mein sadme se pagal sun-hwa ja raha tha usay kash jab mein mar jaon ga mere bachon ko itni bhi fursat nahi hogi ke meri namaz e janaza parh saken aur mujhe sahih terhan se dafna saken ae kash ,
Pachtane ke siwa ab to koi charah hi nahi waqt to guzar gaya tha mujhe baar baar woh ahadees mubarikah yaad aa rahi thi jo ke mein ne masjid mein suni theen jis mein yeh zikar tha ke quran Majeed parhnay wala shakhs jis par woh amal bhi kere is ke walidain ko qayamat ke din aisa taaj pehnaya jaye ga jis ki roshni Sooraj ki roshni se ziyada ho gi. aah kitney khush naseeb hon ge woh walidain jis ke bachon ne quran Majeed parha hoga. usay yaad kya hoga aur is par amal kya hoga mein hi badnaseeb hon jo ke –apne bachon ko quran karem nahi parha saka. aaj un ki yeh taleem mere kis kaam ki mere barray betay ka dr ban-na mere kis kaam ka ke mein bemaar ho jaon aur woh mera ilaaj nah kar sakay, chhootey betay ka business sanbhaalna mere kis kaam ka mujhe to aaj tak yeh bhi yaad nahi ke is ne mujh par kuch kharch bhi kya ya koi mujhe phooty kori di hon halan ke is ka kaarobar kitna wasee tha. kash mein ne inhen deen islam ki kuch baatein hi sikha dy hoten unhi yeh to samja hi diya hota taakay walidain ki khidmat karne par Allah taala ne kya kya inamaat rakhay hain to shayad aaj mera yeh haal nah hoga. ae kkhuda mujhe maaf farma. ameeen